The good folks over at Expat Arrivals are featuring an interview with me on their Malaysia page. It covers information that you may be interested in if you are considering or planning to move to this country. What do I enjoy? What are the negatives? How is health care and public transportation? What are the work culture and school environment like?
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Monday, December 17, 2012
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Hanging out at the Hard Rock Hotel Penang
One of the popular places on the island for hanging out and having fun is the Hard Rock Hotel Penang along Batu Ferringhi beach. Take a dip in the pool, order yummy food and drinks, and meet up with friends, whether by accident or design. With easy beach access, both a Kids and Teen Club, and The Rock Spa, how can you go wrong? Many families who live here buy the annual Stage Pass so that they can enjoy the resort without having to book a hotel room.
Splashing Around
This pool is BIG, but its sinuous, free-form style keeps it feeling relaxed and not too overwhelming. Some parts are the perfect depth for adults while the shallow, children's area has a sandy bottom for squishing between your toes. Bring along buckets and shovels for playing in the sand lying along the edges, too. Guests in the Lagoon Rooms have individual, poolside decks right outside the door. If you need a drink but don't want to climb out, just swim up to the bar. For those of you who don't want to get wet, belly up to the Sand Bar on dry land for your drink order.
There's lots of other watery fun to be had. Kids (and some adults) are eager to slip down the two water slides. Take turns blasting each other on the cushioned sprayground. Sometimes, a volleyball game in the wading area keeps the older kids entertained. And at least once a day, employees lead a little poolside dance party. Since this is the Hard Rock, you can be sure that good music is always blasting from the speakers.
Foam Party
The Hard Rock Hotel Foam Party takes place the first Saturday of every month, plus other special occasions like the White Foamy Christmas Eve Party. It's kids only for the first couple hours, and then it's the adults' turn to party in foam until late at night. (Note that parents are not allowed to accompany their kids into the foam.) This event is open to the public, not just hotel guests and Stage Pass members.
Want a few tips?
Kids Club and Teen Club
If your kids start getting bored of hanging out by the pool (such a difficult life they lead), you can send them to the Kids Club or Teen Club at no extra charge. Some moms even put their children in the Club while getting their hair done at the on-site salon. (Ask for the Billy Ray Cyrus cut and watch the magic happen.)
The Lil' Rock Kids Club is for ages 4 to 12 years old, but to be honest, the club seemed best suited for kids under 7 years old. A toddler playscape and a TV showing movies are the main entertainment. Older kids may be interested in organized activities like the daily cooking class.
The Teen Club is for ages 12-18 years and is located at the front of the building, facing the parking lot. A pool table (small charge for playing), foosball table, Wii and computer games are the big draw. My 9-year-old desperately wishes he was a teen.
Best Pizza in Penang
If you start getting a little hungry, you can order from the Pizzeria and dine at the restaurant or have it delivered to you poolside. Waiters will deliver drinks from the Sand Bar, too. Watching them make the wood oven pizzas is quite fun. I, along with many of my friends, have deemed it the best pizza on the island.
Hard Rock Cafe
The Cafe is usually the first thing that comes to mind when you mention the Hard Rock to anyone around the world. For at least a decade, my parents brought me back Hard Rock Cafe T-shirts from wherever they traveled. With a menu of American cuisine like burgers, ribs, and salads along with Malay favorites, you'll be sure to find something you like. There's an extensive drinks menu, too. A live band performs every night, although this family hasn't ever been there late enough to experience it.
The Rock Spa
Is all that relaxing by the pool and eating wearing you out? Time to try The Rock Spa. A couple years ago, Harper's Bazaar named it one of the Top 30 Spas in Malaysia for "Relaxing Ritual." I went in for a back massage as my back-to-school treat in August. As I lay on the table in the private spa villa set away from the hustle and bustle of the pool area, I could hear the waves washing ashore during the massage. Such a relaxing sound! After your treatment, sit by the pool sipping a cup of herbal tea while you unwind a little more.
The funny thing is that at the end, I heard the receptionist tell me, "Have a rotten day."
"Excuse me?" I said incredulously. (Had my tip really been that bad?)
She replied, speaking slowly and ennunciating every word, "Have a ROCKIN' day."
Oh, that makes much more sense.
Hit the Beach
If all this isn't enough to keep you entertained, you can always go off property and hit Batu Ferringhi beach on the other side of the hedges. Friends have done everything from riding jetskis to parasailing to riding horses.
And as you head out to the beach, you'll pass one of my favorite signs on the island.
Stage Pass Membership
In some ways, having a Stage Pass Membership has made my life difficult. Do boring errands or hang out at the Hard Rock? Decisions, decisions. It also seems to have raised the bar for what hubby expects on vacation. When we went to a Thailand beach resort, I claimed that we could just relax by the hotel pool and have drinks. "Isn't that what you did on Wednesday at the Hard Rock?" he asked. Ummm... yeah. So what if the line between vacation and real life is beginning to blur?
The Stage Pass Membership is RM750 per year and is available to Malaysian residents and expatriates. Included in the membership are:
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| Cool off in the pool at the Hard Rock Hotel Penang |
Splashing Around
This pool is BIG, but its sinuous, free-form style keeps it feeling relaxed and not too overwhelming. Some parts are the perfect depth for adults while the shallow, children's area has a sandy bottom for squishing between your toes. Bring along buckets and shovels for playing in the sand lying along the edges, too. Guests in the Lagoon Rooms have individual, poolside decks right outside the door. If you need a drink but don't want to climb out, just swim up to the bar. For those of you who don't want to get wet, belly up to the Sand Bar on dry land for your drink order.
There's lots of other watery fun to be had. Kids (and some adults) are eager to slip down the two water slides. Take turns blasting each other on the cushioned sprayground. Sometimes, a volleyball game in the wading area keeps the older kids entertained. And at least once a day, employees lead a little poolside dance party. Since this is the Hard Rock, you can be sure that good music is always blasting from the speakers.
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| The pool isn't just for swimming. It's for spraying, dancing, bumping and splashing. |
Foam Party
The Hard Rock Hotel Foam Party takes place the first Saturday of every month, plus other special occasions like the White Foamy Christmas Eve Party. It's kids only for the first couple hours, and then it's the adults' turn to party in foam until late at night. (Note that parents are not allowed to accompany their kids into the foam.) This event is open to the public, not just hotel guests and Stage Pass members.
Want a few tips?
- Keep your mouth closed because the foam tastes vile.
- Have a drink ready in case if you forget to keep your mouth closed.
- Don't dive or belly flop onto the foam. (This mistake only seems to happen after a few too many trips to the bar.)
- RM20 for kids and RM30 for adults; includes use of pool
| Foam Fight! |
Kids Club and Teen Club
If your kids start getting bored of hanging out by the pool (such a difficult life they lead), you can send them to the Kids Club or Teen Club at no extra charge. Some moms even put their children in the Club while getting their hair done at the on-site salon. (Ask for the Billy Ray Cyrus cut and watch the magic happen.)
| This Kids Club makes me think of Arkansas. |
The Lil' Rock Kids Club is for ages 4 to 12 years old, but to be honest, the club seemed best suited for kids under 7 years old. A toddler playscape and a TV showing movies are the main entertainment. Older kids may be interested in organized activities like the daily cooking class.
The Teen Club is for ages 12-18 years and is located at the front of the building, facing the parking lot. A pool table (small charge for playing), foosball table, Wii and computer games are the big draw. My 9-year-old desperately wishes he was a teen.
| Hip and trendy Teen Club |
Best Pizza in Penang
If you start getting a little hungry, you can order from the Pizzeria and dine at the restaurant or have it delivered to you poolside. Waiters will deliver drinks from the Sand Bar, too. Watching them make the wood oven pizzas is quite fun. I, along with many of my friends, have deemed it the best pizza on the island.
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| Top: Pepperoni pizza in the making; Bottom: Yummy satay |
Hard Rock Cafe
The Cafe is usually the first thing that comes to mind when you mention the Hard Rock to anyone around the world. For at least a decade, my parents brought me back Hard Rock Cafe T-shirts from wherever they traveled. With a menu of American cuisine like burgers, ribs, and salads along with Malay favorites, you'll be sure to find something you like. There's an extensive drinks menu, too. A live band performs every night, although this family hasn't ever been there late enough to experience it.
| The Hard Rock Cafe is a very cool place to celebrate turning 13-years-old. |
The Rock Spa
Is all that relaxing by the pool and eating wearing you out? Time to try The Rock Spa. A couple years ago, Harper's Bazaar named it one of the Top 30 Spas in Malaysia for "Relaxing Ritual." I went in for a back massage as my back-to-school treat in August. As I lay on the table in the private spa villa set away from the hustle and bustle of the pool area, I could hear the waves washing ashore during the massage. Such a relaxing sound! After your treatment, sit by the pool sipping a cup of herbal tea while you unwind a little more.
| Private spa villa with room enough for a couples massage. |
The funny thing is that at the end, I heard the receptionist tell me, "Have a rotten day."
"Excuse me?" I said incredulously. (Had my tip really been that bad?)
She replied, speaking slowly and ennunciating every word, "Have a ROCKIN' day."
Oh, that makes much more sense.
Hit the Beach
If all this isn't enough to keep you entertained, you can always go off property and hit Batu Ferringhi beach on the other side of the hedges. Friends have done everything from riding jetskis to parasailing to riding horses.
| Batu Ferringhi Beach next to the Hard Rock Hotel Penang |
And as you head out to the beach, you'll pass one of my favorite signs on the island.
| Parasailing horses are hazardous indeed. |
Stage Pass Membership
In some ways, having a Stage Pass Membership has made my life difficult. Do boring errands or hang out at the Hard Rock? Decisions, decisions. It also seems to have raised the bar for what hubby expects on vacation. When we went to a Thailand beach resort, I claimed that we could just relax by the hotel pool and have drinks. "Isn't that what you did on Wednesday at the Hard Rock?" he asked. Ummm... yeah. So what if the line between vacation and real life is beginning to blur?
The Stage Pass Membership is RM750 per year and is available to Malaysian residents and expatriates. Included in the membership are:
- Complimentary pool entry for 2 adults and 2 children below 12 years old.
- Pool entry of RM30 for additional guests including children
- Complimentary use of the Lil' Rock Kids Club and Teen Club
- Complimentary 1 night stay in a Hillview Deluxe Room with buffet breakfast for 2 adults and 2 children below 12 years old which can be upgraded to a Seaview Deluxe room with balcony if you stay between Sundays till Thursdays.
- Complimentary 30-minute back massage for 1 person
- RM50 dining voucher for Starz Diner or Pizzeria
- 10% off total Food and Beverage bill at the Hard Rock Cafe (with exceptions)
- 20% discount on food at hotel food outlets other than the Cafe (with exceptions)
- 10% discount on beverages at hotel food and beverage outlets other than the Cafe (with exceptions)
- 10% off selected Hard Rock Hotel and Cafe merchandise
- 25% off a la carte Rock Spa Treatments and poolside cabana rentals
- Jump the "Q" privileges at the Hard Rock Cafe for member and 3 guests
- 10% off best promotional room rates at the Hard Rock Hotels in Penang, Bali and Pattaya
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Sunday, December 9, 2012
Blending in with the Locals
If you haven't noticed already, I can pass as a local Malaysian. Penang is a little more than 40% Chinese, some of whom have been here for 7+ generations. As for myself, my grandparents were born in China, my parents were born in the Philippines, and I was born in the USA. When strangers meet me, they assume that I'm Malaysian... until I start talking and my accent gives me away. At that point, people ask if I'm from Hong Kong or Korea. I get the occasional, "Are you Japanese?" Only two people have guessed American or Canadian. In other words, I blend in really well, and no one assumes that I'm a Westerner at heart.
Asian minority in America
Growing up in the Houston, Texas, I was always in the minority. I think I made up one elementary school "tell us about your heritage" presentation because no one was there who knew about Filipino-Chinese traditions. There are a few incidences from my childhood when I was teased for being Asian. I suppose bullies pick on people for whatever reason -- too fat, too skinny, too tall, too short, too Asian... I remember being so thrilled as a young teenager that there was an Asian girl one time in Seventeen magazine. Wait a minute? You can be Asian and still be pretty? By the time I reached high school, the Asian community in my area had grown, along with other ethnic groups. Roll call for my Chemistry II class sounded like the United Nations directory.
Thankfully, my kids did not have had the same Outsider experience when we were still living in Texas. Our neighborhood school there is diverse with 38% Asians, 11% Hispanics, and -- woo hoo! -- 6% mixed race students.
Blending into the crowd in Malaysia
Then, I moved here and was suddenly surrounded by people who look like me. We were at a restaurant in Penang when I pointed out to my husband that he was the only white person in the room. (Excluding my three half-white kids. If you count them, I guess there were 2.5 white people.) "This must be what it's like for you in America," he stated. Yup.
Looks Chinese, Doesn't speak Chinese
People assume that I can understand Hokkien, the dialect spoken in Penang by the ethnic Chinese. The vendors at the wet market and fruit stall finally recognize me and know not to quote the price to me in Chinese. I've been complimented that I speak English really well. It's the only language I know fluently, so I suppose it's good I've mastered it. Right? One day, I was pushing my shopping cart along the aisles of Tesco when a frazzled, Australian man loudly said to me, "Dooooo yoooouuuuu speeeeeaaaaaak Engliiiiishhhh?" He was absolutely relieved when he realized I could communicate with him and point him towards the rice.
Getting local prices
Tourists and expats are often quoted higher prices for goods and services than what locals are charged. It's nicknamed "The Skin Tax." Sometimes, this is unofficial. The owner of the little boat for hire to Monkey Beach sees that someone is a Westerner, and names a high price. Other times, two price sets are officially displayed on a sign. To take the funicular up Penang Hill, it's RM30 for adults -- unless you are Malaysian, in which case it's only RM8. If I'm the one to buy the family's tickets, I can usually get the local price. My white husband, on the other hand, was charged three times more for bananas at our usual fruit stand than what I typically pay. Since this amounted to all of US$3, he didn't really mind. (Perhaps thus supporting the idea that Westerners can afford to pay extra.)
I've noticed that when I'm at festivals with my husband and American friends, they get much more attention than I do. People push flyers and advertisements into their hands more frequently than into mine. Shopkeepers try a little harder to get them into their stores. It's as if they have a sign hanging around their neck reading, "I'm a tourist and have lots of money to spend." Not so much for me. I just fly by under the radar.
No paparazzi
The biggest perk to blending in with the locals is that we aren't stalked by "the paparazzi." If you are a Westerner living or visiting Asia, you may be surprised by the number of locals who want a picture of you. The number of cameras trained at you increases the younger you are and the blonder you are. So, if you have an adorable, little, blonde child with light-colored eyes, people will probably want a picture.
"The paparazzi" all over Asia. My father-in-law tells a story about bringing my husband to Japan when he was a youngster. They were visiting the same circuit of tourist spots as a girls school trip. At each stop, more and more girls gathered the courage to take their picture with my guy (admittedly quite adorable at that age, so who can really blame them). Another family told me of being in rural China and having a hard time running errands with their four blonde kids because they were stopped so often. A friend in Shanghai has a beautiful daughter who could pass for Taylor Swift. She dyed her blonde hair brunette just so she wouldn't attract so much unwanted attention.
My kids have only had their picture taken once that I know of. They just don't look exotic enough. This is a relief to me. Most of my friends that this happens to get used to it after a while, and it doesn't seem to bug them.
Asian on the Outside, Western on the Inside
On the other hand, I sometimes find that whole blending into the crowd business a little strange. Is there a fellow American flashpacker at the next table proudly boasting to everyone on Facebook that she's the only foreigner in the crowd? When strangers judge this book by the cover, they are probably creating a fiction that is far removed from my real back story. On the inside, I'm just a gal who had a typical American upbringing.
Tuesday, December 4, 2012
ESCAPE: Penang's New Eco-Adventure Park
| The kids are planning to ESCAPE again. |
ESCAPE is Penang's new theme park, and I predict that it's destined to become quite popular with both tourists and locals. The first stage, AdventurePlay, opened a few weeks ago, and my kids were eager to try it out. We discovered a place where active types can get their thrills climbing around in the great outdoors. There's a ropes course, ziplining, inner tubing, leaping from towers and more. No giant costumed characters or fantasy lands here. At ESCAPE, Mother Nature takes center stage.
When you first enter the park, Monkey Business immediately beckons you to play. This ropes course has 80 challenges spread over 8 courses and three levels of difficulty. Test your agility and balance with each step. Crawl through the barrel or fly down the rope on the zip-line. I liked that all the courses started and ended on the same tower. That way, my kids could be on different courses and levels, but I could still keep track of them overhead. You clip your harness onto the safety rope at the beginning and stay on it until you're at the end. No worries about people remembering to properly switch carabiners at each station like other ropes courses we've done. Bringing gloves (or buying them at the gift shop) would have cut down on blisters forming after multiples times through the course.
| Are you ready for some Monkey Business? |
Have you ever wanted to release your inner Spider-Man? At Gecko Tower, race up the side of a building, using whatever footholds and handholds you can find. This isn't your typical rock climbing wall. Instead, you're grabbing on to plumbing, air-conditioning units, window grates, and wooden siding. Watch out for the boxing gloves coming out to hit you! Hubby easily trounced our eldest boy the first time up the most difficult side. But our boy had the endurance, and was able to return for more climbs long after Dad called it quits. He even had enough energy to scurry up a tree at Go Ape. An auto-belay system keeps you safe on both activities, and you have the fun of rappeling down from the top.
| On Gecko's Tower, my boy had the advantage of youth and no boxing gloves hitting him. |
If your thrill seeking personality still isn't satisfied, take a giant leap off Atan's Tower. Do you want to fall from 20 meters up in the air or merely 13 meters? After strapping on the harness and making the jump, there's a quick but controlled descent to the ground. You never feel like you're in a free fall or experience the snap and bounce of bungy jumping. My 7-year-old girl and teen boy gave it a try. When they were teasing their brother about not going, I said, "He seems to have inherited his mother's sense of self-preservation, unlike you two lunatics." Note that you'll have to pay an extra RM20 for this activity.
| Would you jump off Atan's Leap? Would you let your kids? |
Tubby Racers is another fun, family activity. Slide downhill, having faith that you won't slam into anything because you can't see the bottom from the top, and you're constantly spinning around to face backwards. There are two straight slides and a curvy one. If you want to ride together, grab the bigger inner tube. Keep in mind that you must first haul the inner tube up to the top of the hill. These are heavier than the ones at water parks. Even my very fit, personal trainer friend found that only a few times dragging both her own and her young daughter's tubes uphill was her limit. Note that children must be at least 6 years old to ride.
| Who's the fastest downhill Tubby Racer (a.k.a. Summer Tubing)? |
What about the younger kids?
While most of the activities are geared towards primary school-aged kids up through active adults, there are a few things to entertain the younger tots who are tagging along with the group. At ZoomBug, kids wiggle the handles of their go-kart back and forth to propel it around the race track.
| It's time to ZoomBug around the track. |
Don a helmet with a headlamp at Foxy Burrows and explore this cavelike tunnel. Parents aren't allowed inside, but you can keep watch on the closed circuit TV outside. My teen wanted to try both these activities but discovered that the downside to a growth spurt is that he's now too tall to do some kiddie fun.
The Tots Trail and Cubs Play make up a nice playground. It's in a shaded area and is ideal for kids ages 3 to 10 years old.
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| Younger kids can have fun climbing and jumping at Tots Trail and Cubs Play. |
Everyone, even the grown ups, can try their hand at panning for "gold" at Discovery Dig. Although, I think my kids were expecting at least Fool's Gold (mica) and not gold painted pebbles.
| Gold rush time at Discovery Dig |
Group Events
I bet that this place will become popular for parties and corporate events. Two party rooms are available that hold 20-50 people. Both are air-conditioned and have a climbing wall. I also saw another party tent set up outside by the hawker center. My friend had her child's birthday party here. She gives it thumbs up for service and fun but also said it was pricey. Treetop Cabanas set away from the hustle and bustle of the park are available for day rental.
| Party time |
| Your personal treehouse for RM150-300 per day. |
What makes ESCAPE an eco-park?
Obviously, all the park activities encourage folks to enjoy exercising in the great outdoors. But ESCAPE's commitment to the environment goes beyond this. They've taken steps to reduce the park's negative impact on its surroundings. I noticed that the buildings at the front had a layer of grass sod on the roofs. Why? It provides insulation so the buildings are cooler inside and reduces heat reflected off the building so that they won't become a heat island. Rain barrels collect water for re-use. Gravel paths instead of cement ones are water permeable so that rain soaks into the ground instead of merely running off. It's one of the best examples of environmentally aware development that I've seen in Malaysia.
Details and Tips:
What else do you need to know?
- Current entry prices may be found at http://escape.my/visitor-information/entrance-rates. Everyone, ages 4 yrs and up, pays to enter, even if you plan on just watching.
- ESCAPE is located past Batu Ferringhi in Teluk Bahang, just before the Butterfly Farm.
- Plan on spending 2-6 hours at the park. We actually hung out there for 6.5 hours, doing activities over and over again.
- Arrive dressed for an active day outdoors. Wear sports shoes -- no slip-ons or open-toed shoes. Tie back long hair, and secure headscarves. Leave the dangling jewelry at home. And ladies, remember that you'll be high in the air with people looking up at you, so skip the skirts and dresses.
- Rent shoes in the gift shop if you wore the wrong footwear. Climbing gloves are also for sale there.
- An ESCAPE cash card available at the entrance is the only form of payment accepted inside the park. You can top it up inside the park and are refunded the unused money at the exit.
- ESCAPE offers both typical hawker center fare and Western food as well as ice cream, cendol and beverages. Most entrees were RM8-15. Absolutely no food or drinks are permitted to be brought into the park, not even water.
- Lockers are RM5 per day for multiple entry.
- You pay extra for temporary tatoos (RM5-20), face painting (RM15-30), and the dunk tank.
- If your zipline comes to a halt midway, don't panic. Someone will come and rescue you, pulling you back to the platform.
- A surua is located within the park near the entrance.
- One complaint: There are no good places to take shelter during one of Penang's frequent downpours. Time for an extended toilet visit or gift shop browsing, perhaps?
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Tuesday, November 27, 2012
Penang's Loy Krathong Festival plus bonus bloopers
| Penang's Loy Krathong festival |
Last Saturday, Penang's two Thai Buddhist temples celebrated Loy Krathong. Loy means "to float," and krathong are lotus-shaped vessels. It's traditionally held to thank the Water Goddess during the full moon of the twelfth month in the Thai lunar calendar when the water level is high and the climate is cooler. Penang's celebration was a few days early to enable more people to participate. The evening began with a cultural show and praying ceremony led by monks at Wat Chaiya Mangalaram, more commonly referred to as The Reclining Buddha Temple. From there, a procession made its way to the shoreline along Gurney Drive. About a thousand devotees released candle-lit krathongs, setting them adrift and letting the vessels carry away their troubles. In so many ways, it was exactly as I had hoped -- magical, mystical and a visual delight.
Earlier in the week, I took a break from Thanksgiving Day preparations to visit the temple since finding information on-line was impossible. Many colorful krathong were already for sale. I hoped to find something traditional made out of banana leaves, but all they had were ones with styrofoam bases and synthetic petals.
| Krathong for sale at the Reclining Buddha Temple |
The night of the festival, I heard chanting, drumming and singing as I approached the temple. Entering through the gate, a massive crowd greeted me, lining up to follow the floats to the beach. After gathering my krathong, I fell in step with the procession, marveling at how the street I had just driven down was now completely blocked with people.
| Drummers getting ready to lead the procession |
| Young ladies riding the float from the temple to Gurney Drive. |
When we reached Gurney drive, a mere 600 meters away, everyone flowed to the one break in the wall where steps led down to the beach. Hundreds of flickering krathongs were already floating out to sea. I heard one girl cry out excitedly, "They're headed to the mainland, mommy!" We spread out along the shore, wading into the water to release our own krathongs.
On the beach, devotees brought along the unclaimed krathong from the temple. They quickly lit the candles and joss sticks before casting them into the water.
| Lighting the krathong |
Oh, the variety of vessels. Most of them were fairly simple like mine. But others had towering tiers like a wedding cake or LED lights running around the bottom. Others were so big that two people had to carry them. The most impressive one was a golden, elaborately carved, ancient Siamese boat with a dragon masthead. Instead of merely floating in the water, this one was loaded onto a boat and carried out to sea.
| This special krathong went out via boat. |
If only this is where the story ends. But it doesn't. The rest of the night seemed like the bloopers reel at the end credits of a serious movie.
Picture yourself solemnly lowering your krathong and releasing it into the water. Now imagine a wave washing it right back between your legs, overturning it and extinguishing the flames. That's what happened to me. It was happening to everybody. The more experienced folks would swish their hands in the water to get their krathong to catch an outgoing wave.
Some of the vessels just looped around towards the storm drain pipes right next to the beach. If releasing the krathong is supposed to cast away your sins and bad fortune, what does it mean if it refuses to leave?
| Stranded |
The krathong that escaped picturesquely floated out towards the shipping lane before being swept back towards the island, carried by the currents or perhaps the wake of the passing cruise boat. I could see their flickering lights congregating about a kilometer down the shore.
The big, gorgeous krathong that I recently admired ended up bursting into flames shortly after it was released. It was quite a pyrotechnic float.
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| Before and After |
As the crowds began to disperse, one family with an array of krathong arrived and strolled to the water. The photographers gathered around them, wading into the straits to get a good shot. The family was very cooperative, following the instructions of one particularly demanding man. At first they posed, standing with the krathongs held so the candles' glow lit up their faces. Then they were asked to gradually lower them almost into the water. Now freeze! As they stood there half crouched...snap, snap, snap... photographers took a few pictures. Now stand up a little more. Now back down again. They finally released their krathong only to have them immediately washed back into their hands. The photographers seized on this as another chance to take a series of more posed photos. I turned away before they were done. They were good sports about it all.
| Posing for the Loy Krathong paparazzi |
By that time, my pants were soaked from the waves, and my sports sandals refused to let go of the gravelly sand rubbing up against my feet. It was time to go. I wonder if my krathong escaped being pulled back to shore. Perhaps it will wash up in Singapore where they will find my name on the krathong and fine me for littering.
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Sunday, November 25, 2012
Vote for me at the Expats Blog Awards
UPDATE: Thank you so much to everyone who voted. Malaysian Meanders took Honourable Mention at the Expats Blog Awards 2012. If you live in Malaysia, especially Kuala Lumpur, you should take some time to read The Yum List which took 1st place. It covers the best places to eat, drink, stay and spa. It only includes spots that are worth the visit because time is too precious to waste on average food and experiences.
I am both surprised and honored to find out that someone nominated me for an Expats Blog Award. At first, I thought that I'd easily win the Malaysia category since I was the only blog listed. I thought it was a slam dunk. However, they seem to have found a few other blogs in the last few weeks. I no longer stand alone.
If you enjoy my blog and have found it helpful, please vote for me. The judging is largely based on public opinion, so every nice review or comment helps. Just click through below.
I am both surprised and honored to find out that someone nominated me for an Expats Blog Award. At first, I thought that I'd easily win the Malaysia category since I was the only blog listed. I thought it was a slam dunk. However, they seem to have found a few other blogs in the last few weeks. I no longer stand alone.
If you enjoy my blog and have found it helpful, please vote for me. The judging is largely based on public opinion, so every nice review or comment helps. Just click through below.
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If you are one of the strangers that I've met at Starbucks during your exploratory visit to answer your questions about moving to Penang, please vote for me. Same goes for those whose messages I've answered on Facebook.
Most of all, thank you so much for reading my blog and helping me with my mission to share what a wonderful, exciting place Penang is for an expat to live or a world traveler to explore.
Wednesday, November 21, 2012
One Thousand Gifts
Last year, my older son's teacher assigned each student to come up with a list of One Thousand Gifts. No, not a Christmas wish list. Inspired by the book by Ann Voskamp, the teacher asked for a list of one thousand things to be grateful for. One thousand! I can easily rattle off 30 items I'm thankful for, one item for each day in November. With a tiny bit more work, I can probably crank the list up to 100. But 1000 is a lot. To come up with 1000, you have to dig really deep. It took the entire school year to compile.
My son started off easy, listing "All fifty states" as one line item (#64) followed by each state named individually in alphabetical order. But eventually, he uncovered a depth of gratitude that I didn't know existed inside him. It was like a tween's journal but with absolutely no angst, just sunshine and happiness. This lesson entered his life at a good time. Like many coming of age stories, my boy was beginning to leave that childlike sense of wonder behind him and become aware of the realities of the world. Seeking 1000 gifts focused his gaze on the realities that are good and beautiful instead of the ones that make you lose faith. So with his permission, here are a few of those gifts, mostly travel related.
10. A sunset with an array of colors
293. My brother who is a serious Pokemon fan
374. The countless hours of free time on an intercontinental flight.
434. Having random thoughts of Maine when eating lobster.
472. Hearing the drums banging at the dragon dance celebration
500. 500 -- exactly half of 1000 gifts -- halfway before your goal's end to make you say, "Wow, it was hard, but I managed and thought of 1000 thankful gifts."
714. Monkeys that crawl all around Malaysia and want to steal your food
849. Pike's Peak where "America the Beautiful" was written
858. Hawai'i Volcanoes National Park, full of hardened magma and glowing volcanoes
1000. The one thousandth gift is completed. Flipping back in the book will remind me of all the fun I had in sixth grade.
This post is part of Travel Photo Thursday at Budget Travelers Sandbox and Friday Daydreamin' at R We There Yet Mom? Check them out for more around-the-world travel inspiration.
My son started off easy, listing "All fifty states" as one line item (#64) followed by each state named individually in alphabetical order. But eventually, he uncovered a depth of gratitude that I didn't know existed inside him. It was like a tween's journal but with absolutely no angst, just sunshine and happiness. This lesson entered his life at a good time. Like many coming of age stories, my boy was beginning to leave that childlike sense of wonder behind him and become aware of the realities of the world. Seeking 1000 gifts focused his gaze on the realities that are good and beautiful instead of the ones that make you lose faith. So with his permission, here are a few of those gifts, mostly travel related.
10. A sunset with an array of colors
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| Watching the sunset over the Pacific Ocean at Kalaloch Lodge in Olympic National Park, Washington. For all you Twilight fans, this is in Forks. |
293. My brother who is a serious Pokemon fan
| Making brother's dreams come true with a visit to Tokyo's Pokemon Center. |
374. The countless hours of free time on an intercontinental flight.
| So much in-flight entertainment, so little time on the flight from Los Angeles to Hong Kong. |
434. Having random thoughts of Maine when eating lobster.
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| The view from Thurston's Lobster Pound in Bernard, Maine where lobster boats unload traps right at the restaurant. |
472. Hearing the drums banging at the dragon dance celebration
500. 500 -- exactly half of 1000 gifts -- halfway before your goal's end to make you say, "Wow, it was hard, but I managed and thought of 1000 thankful gifts."
714. Monkeys that crawl all around Malaysia and want to steal your food
| Training baby monkeys on the fine art of stealing food at the Penang Botanical Garden |
849. Pike's Peak where "America the Beautiful" was written
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| They only allowed us 40 minutes at the summit before heading back down to avert altitude sickness. |
858. Hawai'i Volcanoes National Park, full of hardened magma and glowing volcanoes
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| Devastation Trail had tiny bits of solidified lava known as Pele's hair and Pele's tears |
1000. The one thousandth gift is completed. Flipping back in the book will remind me of all the fun I had in sixth grade.
This post is part of Travel Photo Thursday at Budget Travelers Sandbox and Friday Daydreamin' at R We There Yet Mom? Check them out for more around-the-world travel inspiration.
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